Saturday, July 1, 2023

Déjà vu – All Over Again!

 

July  2023 Blog


I Am Not Job: A Haiku

Would that the gods ceased

Having sport with me for I

Am most sorely pressed.

by Ann Wilmer-Lasky

(6/29/23)

 

I do not expect life to be fair, but I’m not happy it has been this unfair. Several months ago our car was hit in the parking lot of a mall where my husband has a small movie and TV memorabilia collectibles shop. A truck came around a blind corner and turned right in front of him as he was pulling out, basically ripping the front end off. It was a hit and run and the insurance company wanted to total the car. We wanted it fixed. They said they would no longer cover it if they paid us for it. So we paid almost eight hundred dollars out of pocket to get it fixed.

A couple of days ago, the car was stolen from our driveway late at night. We thought the police had little chance of finding it and getting a replacement was way beyond our means.

Enter the friend of a dear friend who set up a Go Fund Me account to help us replace the stolen car. We had high hopes.

The police found the car (damaged, but drivable) two days later. We got it back and planned on using the Go Fund Me funds to fix it.

We actually got it back yesterday around 4PM. My husband drove it two blocks to the mall this morning and parked it. Less than an hour later, another dealer cut a sharp right turn in from along side the car and took the front end off again.

The car is now really totaled. We don’t know what if anything the driver’s insurance will pay. So we are back to relying on the Go Fund Me to help us obtain a serviceable car.

Neither one of us is in good health, and we surely don’t need this stress and aggravation, but we keep plugging along. Well, I for one am done with life being this unfair.

But it seems life is not through being unfair. As I am writing this, we found out our over-priced cable company no longer carries the one channel we watch almost from the time we turn the TV on until we fall asleep. As of today, we now have to get an antenna. (Gee, just like the olden days, right?)

Basically the point of all of this ranting and raving is this:  I am tired of things happening to me and mine. I am declaring to the gods that be that I will no longer play the victim. I wlll become proactive instead of reactive. The replacement car will have an alarm. There will be a motion sensor light in the driveway. We will get an antenna and dump our over-priced cable company. I will pull my “big girl panties” up and live my life “balls out”! My new motto is “Get ‘er done!” and I do mean now.

Taking a deep breath now. I’m going to type this. (I still write with pen on paper.) Once posted, I will get some sleep and hit the floor in the morning with every intention of having a good day. Enough has been enough. Listen for my roar!

As always, I welcome your reactions and responses to any of my blogs. I love to hear from my readers. Also, here are links to my Twitter and Facebook accounts, if you care to share your thoughts with me there or look for any publication announcements.

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Also, here’s a link to that “Go Fund Me” page so you can see what I have written is for real. (I know, it sounds like a wild tale.) Trust me, I couldn’t make this stuff up!

https://gofund.me/287c298e

 

It’s now July and the year is half over. Summer is upon us, and we still need rain. I’ve planted some sunflowers and herbs this year, and I am watering them faithfully. They are still alive. So, there’s hope.