October 2022 Blog
Transition: A Haiku
“That
I am” need not
Be. if
I change the story
That I
tell myself.
by Ann Wilmer-Lasky
(9/30/22)
To paraphrase Anderson Cooper
on Stephen Colbert’s late night show: “You can change the story that you tell
yourself”. Thank you, Mr. Cooper. Rearranging my story now.
“That I am” has not served
me well lately. Need to rethink where I’m headed and head in a different
direction. The last two years have just been devastating to so many of us in so
many ways. I no longer feel the need to even list all that’s driven us to
virtual distraction. Let’s just say our lives have been rearranged for us
whether we wanted it or not. Time has come to take back what we can – to take
control of those things dangling within our reach and set out again on our own
path, believing that we can make our story go the way we want it to go.
Reminds me of what we
authors do. We control our novels and their characters. We forge the story to
go the way we want it to. Sure, sometimes they grab the reins and force their
stories elsewhere...
But wait! Isn’t that what
we must do with our own lives now?
Mine, anyway, needs an
overhaul. I need better organization and better follow-through – starting with
“a place for everything and everything in its place”. That way, when I get
around to tackling a project, I’ll have everything I need right where I need it
and won’t have to spend valuable time searching for stuff – a definite waste of
time.
Starting and stopping
projects hasn’t served me well either. Taking too long to restart the project
means I often have to “reinvent the wheel” and backtrack before I can move
forward – another time waster.
I probably should limit my
computer time also. I have a tendency to get caught up in Twitter and solitaire
and jigsaw puzzles. It’s amazing how time flies when you’re hyper-focused on
those things.
I consider Twitter my window
on the world right now, so I probably won’t cut back much on that. However, the
solitaire and jigsaws may demand some kind of time limit. I should start
setting my timer for fifteen minutes or so, so I don’t find myself glued to the
chair an hour later, having spent time that could have been better spent
sparring with my characters and recording their stories for posterity.
What a great idea! I can
rearrange my story in order to tell their stories! That’s the spirit! Pumping
myself up now. I’ve spent way too much time being down in the dumps. I’m
smiling a little bit now. Thank you again, Anderson Cooper for your
enlightening take on chaning our own stories and living our lives as we want them
to be.
What an amazing concept!
Building enthusiasm now – and energy. Hope it lasts longer than most of my
bright ideas. But then it wasn’t my idea, was it? It was Anderson Cooper’s.
If I can make it work, I’ll
be releasing my Sam Rock sequel in time for Christmas, along with Steve Hamm’s
brilliant audio version of my paranormal western, “Black Oak: Town of Joy”.
In the meantime, I’m
jumping back on the “Fly Lady” band wagon this month to get rid of my paper
clutter. Really need to cut down on the boxes and boxes of paper stuff I’ve
always thought I needed to keep. Less stuff means other stuff is less likely to
get lost and force more downtime searching for stuff. Love that word “stuff”!
It’s so much better than the word it replaces: “sh*t”, you know.
Well all of this will start
tomorrow. Tonight starts the “Svegoolie” month of horror. Gonna love every
minute of it! Oh, and then there’s the season premeire of SNL – Gonna love
that, too.
If you care to check out
some more horrific stuff, feel free to check out my eclectic selection of books
on Amazon. There may be something there to terrorize you.
https://www.amazon.com/author/annwilmerlasky
Until next month, read and
write to your heart’s content and see if you need to alter your own story.
There will never be a better time.
As always, I welcome your
reactions and responses to any of my blogs. I love to hear from my readers.
Also, here are links to my Twitter and Facebook accounts, if you care to share
your thoughts with me there or look for my publication announcements. They will
be forthcoming:
https://www.facebook.com/ann.wilmerlasky
It’s now October and the
world is cooling off. Unfortunately, its weather is most unruly. Praying for
all those affected by the storms. May be a good time to check out: “Global
Warning: Climate in Crisis” available from Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KWQ6SHK/
Love this! Time to reinvent ourselves! We all need "me" time so if solitaire relaxes you, please don't give it up. We need to find the time to do what makes us happy!!
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